I'd like people in general to answer this question...?

Ok, so I went out dancing with a bunch of friends a couple of weeks ago. At the club I gave my clutch to my friends boyfriend. Every one was drinking that night. When we arrived home, he didn't have my purse. He lost it. He doesn't remember where or how but he lost it. In it, I had my phone, my passport and money. Now I need to get a new cell phone, I need to replace my passport which is from South Africa. The closest consulate is in California and I live in Arizona. Who is responsible for all of this? Please answer and tell me what you honestly think. Am I responsible or is he responsible?