Can someone give me some advice?

there’s really no way you can tell…the only way to know is to meet that person in person, but that might not be safe…You never know what people really are like if they have to hide behind a computer screen to find women/men. What you need is decision. But you cannot do this meaningfully without adequate and quality information. So first list what you want in a person. Then get about measuring how they fit in each person. Do that objectively. And to do that, you must disabuse your mind about kinda " I'm just afraid that he might turn out to be a complete weirdo that wants to killl me or something". This is clearly unhelpful. Be open-minded and positive. Arrange to meet with this guy on line physically first before going ahead to tell anyone about it. And while meeting him, be positive. Check out your qualities carefully. But give him adequate opportunity to unwind before you make conclusions. Good Luck And Be Careful LOTS of Creepers And Weirdos in today's world (especially online)